Getting married is one of the most magical moments of your life, and having your children share in that joy can elevate the experience to an entirely new level. From playing key roles in the ceremony to adding the cuteness factor, having your kids at your wedding is a special touch that creates lasting memories for both you and them.
If you’re getting married soon, here’s a look at how your little ones can make your wedding day unforgettable.
Why have children there?
Noisy, funny, and downright entertaining. Kids are unpredictable – and this unpredictability can be the main reason why you might be wondering if you need to find a babysitter for the day.
But little people can be a brilliant addition to any event, especially a wedding. They can add comedy to the speeches and bring a sense of fun. And having your own children there on your big day will mean they get to be part of the celebrations.
It only makes them a key part of the celebration but also means they will feel valued and appreciated.
Give them a job
One of the most enchanting aspects of involving your children in your wedding is the potential roles they can play. Depending on their age, they could serve as ring bearers, groomsmen, flower girls, or even take on the role of the best man.
Picture this: your little ones, beaming with excitement, proudly holding the symbolic representation of your commitment – the wedding rings. It’s not just a responsibility; it’s a beautiful bonding moment that will be etched in your memory forever.
Play dress up
Undoubtedly, the cuteness overload that comes with having kids at your wedding is immeasurable. You can make it fun by dressing them up in tiny tuxedos or adorable dresses. This can help them feel like they’re part of the wedding – especially if they’re wearing outfits that fit with the suits and dresses worn by the groomsmen and bridesmaids.
A sense of fun
From the smallest gestures to the most unexpected remarks during the ceremony, their presence adds an authentic charm that elevates the entire atmosphere. And let’s not forget the photos – the candid shots of your children enjoying the celebration will be treasured for years to come, capturing the pure essence of family joy.
Magical memories
Imagine the emotional impact of walking down the aisle with your children by your side. Their tiny hands clasped in yours, sharing the journey to a new chapter of your life, is a poignant and heartfelt moment. Whether they are scattering flower petals or holding a “Here Comes the Bride” sign, this shared experience will be treasured for years after your special day.
Also, as you exchange vows, having your children beside you adds meaning to the promises you make. Their presence is a reminder of the family you’ve created and the enduring love that binds you all together.
The practical details
We’ve covered why it’s lovely to have them there, but now you might be wondering how to navigate the details. You know your kids best. You know when they’re likely to get tired or what will keep them entertained.
If you’re having an event with family present, plan ahead to establish who will look after your little ones throughout the day. This can be a balancing act, especially if you have younger children, but if you can call in help from aunts and uncles, cousins and grandparents, you’ll be well-placed to share the day with your children while enjoying your day.
Some top tips include:
- Bring snacks
Wedding days can be long and, as we all know, children get hungry quickly. Having some snacks on hand will keep them from demanding food midway through the ceremony.
- Create activity packs
Crayons, colouring books, quizzes, magazines and comic books can all go a long way towards keeping your little ones entertained. Bring their favourite toys along for the day.
- Follow their schedule
Whether they’re babies or older kids, they’ll have a routine. You know when your two-year-old is likely to need a nap or your six-year-old needs to have a time out because they’re getting overwhelmed. Even if you’re handing your little ones over to family members, keeptheir routine in mind and make sure you have everything you need to accommodate them, such as a pram for them to snooze in or ear defenders if things get too rowdy.
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